When someone you care about tells you they’ve been sexually assaulted, abused, stalked, or sexually harassed, it can be a lot to handle. We encourage you to offer support and brainstorm safety options. Safey looks differently for each person, so allow a victim/survior to determine what will help them be safe.
Your supportive reaction can make all the difference, but that doesn’t mean it comes easy. Encouraging words and phrases can avoid judgment and show support for the victim/survivor. Power and control has been taken away from the victim/survivor of violence, and your ability to give some of that power and control back by giving them time and the ability to make their own choices can help with their long term healing. You can't help a victim/survivor heal by force. Forcing them to do something they aren't ready to do can hinder their long term recovery.
Feel free to contact The Aurora Center for a free and confidential consultation and information that may help you on our 24 hour Helpline at 612-626-9111.